Hey! I’m Susie Trigg Tucker
I am passionate about coaching women to know, embrace, and love themselves and their life, exactly where they stand today.
I spent most of my adolescent and adult life hiding grief and trauma behind the curtains of perfectionism and being an overachiever. I also spent most of my adolescent and adult life battling a very unhealthy relationship with food and my body. I have now come to realize how tightly woven the two were.
Brene Brown nailed me in The Gifts of Imperfection. Brown says, “Perfectionism is a 20-ton steel shield we lug around, thinking it will protect us, when in fact, it’s really the thing that prevents us from being seen. Most perfectionists grew up being praised for high achievement and performance. Somewhere along the way, they developed a dangerous and debilitating belief system- ‘I am what I accomplish and how well I accomplish it. Please. Perform. Perfect. Prove.’ Perfectionism is a hustle.”
Several years ago, the hustle caught up with me, and when I could no longer bear the weight of the shield, the curtain came crashing down. With the help of therapy and working with life and business coaches, I’ve acquired and implemented mindset tools that have completely changed my life. I can earnestly say I now love myself as I am, imperfections and all. I no longer strive for perfection, and as a result I live presently in a life I truly enjoy.
In my journey to healing, I developed my Love Yourself Here coaching philosophy. It stands on the foundation of separating your self-worth from your circumstances, growing through strife, creating an unbreakable belief in yourself, and most importantly, being present in the here and now of your journey.
Living in this philosophy has afforded me to be the most profitable I’ve ever been in my life. I am abundant. I have an abundance of time, support, love, value, money, and freedom. This abundance wasn’t created by changed circumstances. It was created by a changed mindset about who I am. It came from making a powerful decision to no longer live brooding in the past, nor laser focused on my future, but rather rooted in the right now.
It came from choosing to walk through my life, eyes and arms wide open, imperfect, willing to fall, willing to ask for help, willing to help myself, willing to receive.
Your life doesn’t have to play out contingent to a default future, no matter what your circumstances are today. You can choose a different way. I can help.
I believe in you.
